I am a firm believer in winning a bunch of small pots is the same as winning one big one. In ring games they don't call us "grinders" for nothing!
I also believe in optimizing your winnings - especially with premium hands.
A little background: Playing $25 max no limit holdem full ring game. I have found that players tend to bet using there stack as a reference and not the pot. What I mean is someone sitting there with $50 (meaning he is ahead) will call a $3 raise into a $1 pot because it is just $3 not realizing it is a huge raise based on the pot itself.
So here is the question and subsequent situation I would like opinions on. What do you bet with a premium hand to optimize your winnings but help guarantee the win?
I will use a flush draw since it is the most likely to be chased. (Any two suited is the best hand in poker to online players it seems

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Here's a situation:
$25 NL
Early Position Player with $35 - Limps
Middle Position Player with $58 - Limps
Late Position Player with $15 - Limps
You are in SB with $26 and QQ. You Raise to $1 (4x)
2 call - Late Player folds:
Flop is: Q93 2 suited.
All check to you.
How much of the ~$4 pot do you bet?
You have hit about the best you can hope for. A pot bet will probably not chase out the $55 guy if on a flush draw because it is just $4 and he is up big.
Over bet the pot say $10 or even all in and you are risking a lot to win a little.
How would you handle this?